The words chosen for a headstone inscription are among the most permanent and significant decisions a family makes. Long after the funeral flowers have faded, those words remain — marking the life of someone loved, for all who visit the grave.
The Essential Information
Most headstones include the full name of the deceased, their date of birth and date of death (or just the year), and a brief epitaph or closing line. Some families also include a loving title — 'beloved husband', 'devoted mother', 'cherished grandfather' — to give context to the relationship.
Popular Epitaph Styles
- Simple and timeless: "Forever in our hearts"
- Religious: "Until we meet again" / "Gone to be with the Lord"
- Personal: A favourite quote, song lyric, or line of poetry
- Descriptive: Something that captures who they were — "A true gentleman", "She lived to make others laugh"
- Nature-inspired: "Like a river flows, so does our love"
Things to Consider
Cemetery regulations sometimes restrict the length of inscriptions or prohibit certain phrases or symbols. Some also have rules about the font or lettering style. We check all of this for you and advise on what is permitted at the specific site.
"The right words do not have to be many words. Sometimes a single line says everything."
Need Help Deciding?
Our team has helped thousands of families choose the words for their loved one's inscription. We are always happy to talk through your ideas and offer gentle suggestions if you are unsure. There is no pressure — we work at your pace.